In the recent decade or so, the concept of ‘push presents’ has been gaining immense popularity. But how many of us actually know what they are or represent? Not many, right? So let’s find out…
What Are Push Presents Exactly?
‘Push presents’ are gifts that the partner or family give to a birthing mother to congratulate her and celebrate the arrival of the new born baby. They are tokens of appreciation and admiration for all the hard work and pain a woman endures during pregnancy and delivery of the baby.
Most women are of the opinion that the baby itself is a reward. However, many people (including us) feel that they deserve to be spoiled a little after nailing the monumental feat of childbirth.
Is There a Particular Time to Give These Presents?
When it comes to giving or receiving push presents, there is no perfect time as such. Depending on the person and situation, these gifts can be given either before or after the birth of the baby. At times, people also tend to give these presents in the delivery room itself.
Is This a Modern Concept?
Well, it might be difficult to believe, but push presents are not a new thing. They actually have a long history and this concept is believed to have roots in India and UK. In fact, in the Indian culture, there is a ritual where an expectant mother is showered with gifts, blessings and well-wishes for her and the baby.
In other countries like the U.S., the custom of giving push presents is relatively new. It is said to have begun sometime in the 2000s, when the advent of internet and social media resulted in ease of sharing information and increased awareness among people.
Push Presents for Fathers
Historically, these presents are meant specifically for the person who gives birth. Fathers, therefore, do not receive push presents. However, if you want to thank the man for all his support, love and care, then you can certainly go ahead and surprise him with gifts.
Popular Push Presents
A push present holds a lot of sentimental and emotional value. While there are many options available like clothing or other baby utilities, one gift that is both traditional and popular is fine jewellery. It can feature the mother’s favourite gems or a design that has a deeper meaning.
Below are some beautiful options that can be considered a great choice for push presents.
- Birthstone Jewellery: What is a better gift than jewellery adorned with the baby’s birthstone for a new mother? It could be a ring, pendant or anything else that the mother can wear for years and serves as a brilliant reminder of this special day.
- Initial Jewellery: A jewellery creation showcasing the initial of the child is indeed an amazing and thoughtful present. You could also add the mother’s initial to the piece or have it customized to match your preferences.
- Mom Jewellery: Another interesting choice could be gifting ‘mom’ jewellery to the mother. It literally has the word ‘mom’ carved on the ornament and, at times, embellished with gemstones for a dazzling effect.
Also read – Is Custom-Made jewellery More Expensive?
